Love's road home
Amarillys Dias waited for John Silva to return from Kueait/Iraq and Afghanistan. She couldn’t have seen the detours ahead. But “she kept on fighting, for him and for them.” The engagement began as notification more than proposal. John A. Silva was an inmate in the Shawnee Correctional Center, a state penitentiary in southern Illinois, serving a six-year sentence for a home invasion in which he had struck another man with a frying pan. Amarillys Dias was his off-again, on-again girlfriend since the sixth grade. It was early 1996. She had driven six hours to visit him between bar-tending shifts. The two faced each other across a cafeteria table. He rested his tattooed arms on top. She noticed something unusual: a loop of blue prison-safe dental floss on the ring finger of his left hand. She had not seen this before. “What’s that?” she asked. That, he answered, was his hope. “It’s a reminder that when I get out of here we’re going to have a future, and I’m going to marry you, and ...